Why MacOS is not a "fun" Unix to work with

# time -p tmutil latestbackup
tmutil: latestbackup requires Full Disk Access privileges.
To allow this operation, select Full Disk Access in the Privacy
tab of the Security & Privacy preference pane, and add Terminal
to the list of applications which are allowed Full Disk Access.
real 59.67
user 0.00
sys 0.00
 _ _ _ _ _ _ _

So it takes almost a full minute to give an "access denied"?

Also, I already added Terminal to the list.  MacOS wants something else.

I can run the command from the Terminal on the console, but not via ssh.

In the "Full Disk Access" application list, there's a "+" to add another
application.  Clicking that gives a file dialog, but there is no way
to point it at /usr/sbin/sshd.

Linux wouldn't do this to me.

To check Time Machine status, I have to vnc in to the console -- where the
frame rate at login goes into the dirt, because Sequoia has a lovely moving
background on the login screen.

Honestly, I don't think these kids can steer...

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-v System76 Thelio Mega v1.1 x86_64 NVIDIA RTX 3090 Ti
   OS: Linux 6.12.4 Release: Mint 21.3 Mem: 258G
   "Access denied - nyah nyah nya nyah nyah!"