Re: Ove Interest?

On Thu, 27 Feb 2025 11:53:50 -0500, Frank Krygowski
<frkrygow@sbcglobal.net> wrote:

On 2/27/2025 9:05 AM, Zen Cycle wrote:

floriduh dumbass <Soloman@old.bikers.org> wrote:

>
The best way to deal with a narcissistic is to hit them with the
truth.

 
OK, You're a narcissistc hypocrite with no friends and no life.

>
The Florida path riding tricyclist slings the word "narcissist" as if he
knows what it means. He also brags about being a loner, not needing
other people, refusing to return pleasant greetings, etc. while mocking
the notion of having actual friends.
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Let's look at a recent news article on narcissism:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/science/2025/02/20/narcissists-study-psychology-ostracism-exclusion/
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"Narcissists feel more excluded and experience ‘social pain..."
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"...“grandiose narcissists ... involves a desire to dominate social
situations and a heightened sensitivity to social cues."  Um... like
interpreting "OK for you but too boring for me" as an attack on his guts
and muscle masculinity?
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"“Our findings strongly supported the latter: narcissists, particularly
those high in the antagonistic, rivalry facet of narcissism, report
being ostracized more frequently.”  And his "rivalry" trait is off the
charts, including dismissing any reports of my achievements as either
undocumented or unimportant, while bragging about his flat Florida
mileage or his success in (wow!) making a spreadsheet. He's apparently
done nothing else.
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“... it’s not just a matter of perception — narcissists are actually
excluded more often,' Büttner said. Results showed 'ostracism and
narcissistic traits reinforce each other over time...” Meaning, among
other things, that people don't want to hang around with obnoxious people.
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And our sample-of-one antagonistic yapping Yorkie indeed reports being
alone. His personality traits have left him lonely and obviously
miserable. His defense is pretending he's too manly to need interaction
with others.
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Yet here he is, starved for interaction and trying and trying to "win"
by "slapping me around."
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Pitiful.

"But a new study has cast people with narcissistic personality traits
in a new light — as feeling more excluded than their peers and stuck
in a behavioral doom loop they can’t easily escape."

Indeed...  Hiding from me isn't working for you.

"it’s not just a matter of perception — narcissists are actually
excluded more often,' Büttner said. Results showed 'ostracism and
narcissistic traits reinforce each other over time...” Meaning, among
other things, that people don't want to hang around with obnoxious
people."

That explains why Krygowski seeks out those group think sessions on
committees and other groups. The fact that he has to invent imaginary
friends says it all.

I'll bet that when he was talking down to his students (because that's
what he needed to do) he pretended that they weren't laughing at him
behind his back. He had to have known it. That's what students do.
Krygowski probably did it when he was a student unless he was a
pathetic wussy back them too. I'll bet he was. I'll bet he was a
momma's boy.

--
C'est bon
Soloman